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I wanted to share a little update

I believe my last post was February 19th, 2022!! It was just five short days that really seemed a big blur to me after some huge life changing news. You see, at the end of January I had decided to make an appointment with my primary care provider for some concerns I felt I was having & led to an appointment for some ultrasounds to discover what could be the culprit.

Interesting enough you know, sometimes we have these universal nudges or you can even have your higher self present to you a choice to make, some news, a piece of information, a statement, even a single word that makes you look deeper into it for some answers. Is it just me? No? Ok, I didn’t think so. Let’s just get to it. A week prior to this special event I had my dollar tree test that’s been sitting in my closet for months get knocked off my shelf in my closet to the floor that for whatever reason I kept just eye 👁 balling it laying there after the umpteen hundred of times that I didn’t just pick the dang thing up. Left it on the floor! I typically read into everything because all things can mean something and that’s my opinion. Well let’s fast forward to Valentine’s Day morning, this was the day after one of my besties had shared with me some news that she’s expecting!!! I asked her to come over and spend Valentine’s Day with me and she had some goodies from Mount Shasta to give me anyways and a special present!!! Boy did I not expect the news I was going to find out!! So….. Valentines morning is upon me & it’s early. I am going to the restroom (yes, may be TMI) but……. I hear MY OWN VOICE in my head say “TAKE THAT TEST!!”. To be honest with you, I thought nothing of it until later that mid morning when I received the text message that she’s on her way over I had a notion that the “take that test!” was that I need to take that pregnancy test that fell off the shelf in my closet that I have stared at for over a week every time I walked passed it. My dear friend gets here and I tell her about my voice I heard to take the test, I think I’m crazy but can she hang out with the littles while I go pee on this test. I do it!!! Not even a minute passes and it’s POSITIVE! I had no idea! I had no inclination. Nor did I want to be!!! I was to start my cycle the next day & not to mention I’ve taken precautionary action to NOT get pregnant including 2 plan B on a few occasions JUST to be extra cautious. Yes I’m being extremely open and vulnerable. We decided to go to the store and purchase another test that was digital and not just a dollar tree pregnancy test to send to my husband who was probably having a heart attack at work and prove to him I didn’t just have my bestie pee on a stick 🤭🫣. Again….Positive, and very much positive. I had since taken 5 home pregnancy tests as well as a blood test with the hospital. Your girl here is very much pregnant. Let’s just say that my end of January appointment that we initially scheduled ultrasounds for to discover whatever ailments I was having in this said ultrasound well could’ve been myself being just hyper in tune with my body and my reproductive cycle. That the life cycle process has started!!! I’m thinking what I was experiencing was my body telling me that it was in preparation for creating life and bringing this soul who was definitely persistent at making a presence known. February 18, 2022 we had a confirmation in my ultrasound that was now turned into a prenatal ultrasound that there in fact was an intact embryo and very much pregnant. EDD of 10/22/2022… look at all of them Angel numbers baby! Universe had another plan for me. We are expecting daughter number 2, child 6 for our family.

I have been processing, managing this pregnancy, and extreme all day sickness the first 3.5 months, figuring out my new routines as a stay at home momma to two young ones at home still. Stepping back away from fear of what happened my last delivery (I had hemorrhaged) the fact that this is my 7th pregnancy, 6th baby & just our new life ahead!! I have been taking a break from life just to function daily and listening to my body. How beautiful is this though that I get to be pregnant with one of my dearest friends who is due just the day after me!!! We find out one day apart we are expecting! & just the miraculous ways the universe creates things in our life. Did I even mention one of my gifts was this GIANT heart shape rock from this most magical place!! Mount Shasta! Hearts have sooo much meaning to me. They show up daily!

This pregnancy is absolutely magical in the synchronizations and I’m just ready to absorb all of this in the most positive ways possible while still continuing to manage what my souls purpose entails.

I wanted to update my absence here and begin to share this website I created and my love for what feeds my soul with all who this comes in contact with.

So to my audience, my family and my friends, Thank you for being here!

The power in Breath isn’t spoke about enough

Let’s chat about this for a min. Well, realistically I’ll write about this, and you will be reading. In fact, I’ll take this time right now to just say 𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓃𝓀 𝒴𝑜𝓊 for taking the time in reading these blogs I have been putting out here. I appreciate any time given to my passion & what I talk, speak, or write about. Truly means a lot.

So, we are all just energy, frequency, and vibration. I know I pretty much wrote about this the last blog as well, but I had a little more to add. Everything we experience is done through energy, frequency, and vibration. Your state of consciousness sets the state of your vibration. That vibration attracts your vibration. YOU create your story by giving it meaning through your own perspective. Change your perspective towards a negative experience or experiences you encounter, and you will change the story. There’s not positive without a negative SO use the negative as a way to learn and to grow facing something that seems to be a negative obstacle, PAUSE FOR THE CAUSE. Take some deep breaths, focus your attention to a more positive circumstance. Listen, where the mind goes, energy flows. Remember that!

Let me share a story with you that has been tremendous in my days of being a stay-at-home momma to my younger 2 children. When we are having a mid-break down over whatever it may be. The biggest to smallest thing will bring out a freak out in our days, you parents and even non parentals will get this. It’s in the human nature of little humans learning to navigate their emotions. First off, I like to grab my littles attention by asking them “What color are my eyes?”. They will typically say the color of my eyes and even pink and even the rainbow. Whether they’re right or wrong I don’t correct typically because they know my eye color…I simply tell them, “Ok, now that I have your full attention”. Then I ask my children to take the biggest deep breath in that they can possibly take until their belly blows up like a puffer fish kind of breath, right? Then I ask them to try and reach my nose. Most of the time my daughter just giggles so much, and she forgets her fit, my son will catch his breaths with me and then we talk about the emotion. I think it’s so important to start at a younger age to navigate our feelings and for us as adults to understand that of our children’s emotions too because listen you guys, we don’t just come born into this world knowing how to feel and where to put all of this energy, frequency, and vibrations. We are taught. I want my children to grow up with love, compassion, and know how to navigate the feelings we can sometimes get overwhelmed with. The amazing this about me doing this with my children is that MANY TIMES, have I forgot to “practice what I preach, right?” and I lose it at times as we all do, but guess where the beauty lies in this technique? My littles have now SOOO many times reminded me to catch my breath. Literally, will guide me as I do them to pause for the cause and take a deep breath. That allows me every time to check myself, check my emotions and if it’s really worth all of the energy it’s taken out of me in the moment and how we can better respond. IF we truly take the time and allow…. our little people are our teachers as much as we are theirs.

One of the things I try to remember myself and even I have hard days where I forget all that I have learned, read, was taught or self-taught is this. We can start our day over at any given moment. We really don’t need to sit in a funk for the whole day and just sit in a low vibrational frequency where everyone that we come in contact with or are around has to feel it to, right? Because everything really is a ripple effect. Our thoughts become our realities and our actions affect everyone around us. We set the tones for our days. Literally the captain of our own ships and can sail it however we want to. That is the beauty in this life is it is OUR VERY OWN!

Love the life you live, enjoy the world you are creating and spread the light and love to others.

I challenge you actually… I challenge YOU to smile at a stranger, wave hello to someone driving down the road, give a random compliment to someone. You would be so surprised how far a high vibrational gesture can go and make someone feel. In turn, you may be surprised at how good it makes YOU feel inside just by making someone elses day.

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